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12pm, Gymkhana Grounds, reads a text from Mithali Raj. Youre well before time, I tell her as she gets out of her self-driven BMW a little later and drags two chairs to the boundary rope. Disciplined life, she giggles. Army family.As an eight-year-old, Mithali loved to sleep in. To prevent such lazy habits from setting in, her father, Dorai Raj, a retired Air Force sergeant, dragged her along to her brothers cricket coaching sessions at St Johns Academy in Secunderabad.Mithali would sit by the boundary and finish her homework. Once she was finished, the restless girl would sometimes pick up a bat and hit a dozen balls along the ground as far as she could. Her casual hitting impressed the coach, Jyothi Prasad, a former first-class cricketer. Mithalis swift movements to drive the ball - a step forward before the bat came down in an arc - convinced him that she had potential.From those sleepy mornings in Secunderabad, Mithali went on to become Indias greatest female batsman, enjoying a storied international career that is nearly two decades long. Now, along with Jhulan Goswami, she is the last link between two very different eras of Indian womens cricket - one that played the amateur game, fuelled mostly by their passion, and todays generation, who can expect to have professional cricket careers, feature in television ads and get T20 franchise deals.In December 1997, India hosted a successful Womens World Cup, with about 45,000 reportedly attending the final between Australia and England at Eden Gardens. But the Indian team did not play a single international match for over a year after that. The game was stagnating and steadily losing players, disillusioned by the lack of money, opportunities and recognition. Amid the doom and gloom arrived Mithali, sprightly and ferociously talented. On her international debut, against Ireland in Milton Keynes in 1999 - Indias first match since the World Cup - she made an unbeaten 114.Three years later she was handed a Test cap. Expectations were riding high, but stage fright, she says, took over and she got a duck against England in Lucknow.And although she scored a fifty in her next Test, Mithalis true test came on the tour of England later that year. She made 214 in Taunton, then the highest individual Test score in womens cricket.Those at the ground were mesmerised not by the runs but the manner in which she made them. Senior players, who had seen her come to Indias preparatory camp for the World Cup in 1997 as an unhappy and lonely 14-year old, were awestruck by the confidence of her strokeplay. How could a puny little girl have strength like that? thought those who then watched her evolve into a world-class batsman. Mithali insists she has never again been in the same batting zone that she was in on that cold day in Taunton.That knock marked her coming of age, says former India captain Mamatha Maben, upon whose dismissal Mithali came to the crease for her epic innings. We always knew she could bat, but that knock catapulted her to another level. We knew then that here was a role model in the making, one who would inspire the future stars.For all her precocious talent - Mithali was inducted into the Andhra state team for her first senior nationals in 1995, as a 13-year old, having scored heavily in Under-16 and U-19 matches - batting on a green-tinged surface against a strong England side must have been a daunting task? Not for someone who had the tough initiation Mithali had - much against her wishes.On Jyothi Prasads recommendation, Dorai Raj enrolled his daughter to train under Sampath Kumar, the head coach of Hyderabads two age-group teams. Sampath saw Mithali bat and told her father, I want the complete trust of you and your wife. I want blind support. I will make Mithali play for the country by the time shes 14. Dorai Raj was not convinced. I told my wife he was bluffing. It seemed unrealistic.Sampaths logic was to aim for the stars and hit the moon. If Mithali missed selection at 14, he felt she would make it by 16. He didnt want to set the bar too low, explains Leela, Mithalis mother. He didnt want her to get lost amid the academics maze, because back then there was either a career in engineering or medicine. Even if there were other options, our typical South Indian ideology didnt allow us to explore them.So rigorous was her cricket coaching that Mithali, barely ten, had to make the difficult decision to give up Bharatnatyam. Dance was my personal passion, but the level of cricket I had reached meant I had to understand my priorities, Mithali says. My parents invested a lot more time in making me a cricketer than a dancer, so I had to choose cricket.A normal childhood was out of the question, as her parents asked her to single-mindedly focus on the game.They didnt give me an idea that there had to be a Plan B. They trained me like a racehorse. I wasnt allowed to see right or left, so I didnt have to deal with negativity, jealousy, insecurities or peer pressure. I didnt have proper relationships with my cousins, because I didnt attend family gatherings, for crickets sake. Even today Im not as close to my cousins as I am to my team-mates. I missed out on school excursions, school days, so yes, I have missed a lot of things.And Mithalis training regimen only got tougher. Apart from six-hour coaching sessions, Sampath made her practise hitting straight in the narrow corridors of her school. Sir used to hit me with a stick if the ball touched the walls, she says, grinning at the memory today. She would practise middling the ball with a stump, try to pierce the gaps on a field arranged with cones, and perform catching drills with stones so that she could get at the ball with soft hands.Sometimes her coach made her train even after sunset, Leela says. From 6pm to 8pm, at times. His reason was that in this light if she can watch the ball well, just imagine how well shell fare when its bright and sunny. Sometimes she used to come home crying. I used to calm her down, but now she tells me that if she didnt have that kind of initiation or training, she may have been a lesser player.In 1997, just when Mithali was picked for the World Cup probables camp, Sampath died in a motorcycle accident. Mithali remembers going numb when she heard the news. I felt I had lost more than just a coach. Today, whatever I am is because of him. He shaped my life in a way I didnt see coming. I felt my career was over before it began. It felt like my arms were broken even before the India dream materialised.Dorai Raj realised he had to step in to help Mithali get back on track. I dropped her in Kolkata for the national camp. I was constantly in touch, but she wasnt the same girl.Mithali expected to make her debut at the World Cup, but officials felt she might not be able to take the rigours of a global tournament just then. The rejection was hard to swallow for a teenager already overwhelmed by the death of her coach.Though I was an extrovert till then, I somewhat became an introvert after coming to the India camp. I hardly used to talk to anybody. In a way, it helped. The more time you spend on yourself, you understand yourself better. My observing skills improved because of that.In 2000, Diana Edulji, the former India captain, helped Mithali sign with Railways as a clerk on the sports quota. There she met team-mates GS Lakshmi and Rajani Venugopal, older by more than a decade. The environment was competitive. Sometimes Venugopal and Mithali would compete for a spot, but that didnt come in the way of their friendship.They taught me everything, right from folding clothes to living out of a suitcase, Mithali recalls. I learnt from them what it takes to be independent. The Railways team was full of stars, but Diana decided Ill bat at No. 3 and gave me Rajanis spot. That was an honour. Knowing that she was preparing me to take the spot of a Railways lynchpin was a morale booster.By 2003 it was impossible to name an Indian XI without Mithali. Which meant a captaincy offer wasnt far off.My dad told me in case they asked me if I was ready, just say yes, Mithali says. Heart of hearts, I knew I wasnt ready. Shanta Rangaswamy was the chairman [of the selection panel]. Im not sure if she remembers, but I said no. Till date my dad doesnt know about it, she says, breaking into laughter. That was one of the best decisions. I wouldnt be the captain I was in 2005 had I accepted the job in 2003. I learnt so much from Mamatha.When she finally became captain, Mithali took India to their first World Cup final, in 2005, after scoring an unbeaten 91 in the semi-final against New Zealand - an innings she rates at par with her Test double-century.The pressure was immense. The pressure of the scorecard, the pressure from within, my eagerness to score, made me restless. There were times leading into the game where all I could think of was how Ill go about batting. Then the captaincy bit. On top of that, my knees used to swell like potatoes. I was on painkillers. To come out of that situation was extremely satisfying. Suddenly before the final, for the first time we saw a lot of [media] coverage back home. There was a sense of anticipation.India lost the final to Australia, but nearly 30 years after they had started playing international womens cricket, a benchmark was set. A bright future beckoned.Inspired by Indias World Cup campaign, 12-year-old Veda Krishnamurthy pestered her father to enrol her for trials at the Karnataka Institute of Cricket in Bangalore. That meant travelling from Kadur, a small town in the Chikmagalur district of Karnataka, that had no cricket facilities.An added incentive of attending the trials was the opportunity to potentially meet Mithali, who was being felicitated by the academy for her international exploits. I fought with my friends backstage to present Mithali the bouquet, Krishnamurthy recounts. She describes how mesmerised she was on meeting her idol. I was shaking. I couldnt believe I was meeting the captain of the Indian team; the best batter in womens cricket.Three years on, Krishnamurthy got the chance to bat alongside her role model and get feedback from her, at a net session. The first time we batted together at adjacent nets, I would often have to be alerted by the bowlers, because I just kept watching her, Krishnamurthy says. I was distracted, maybe awestruck. From there to now, its surprising how weve come a long way. Now we are team-mates, and she is a wonderful captain. Off the field, I pull her leg too.Training in Sanglis only net facility, Smriti Mandhana broke into Maharashtras U-15 squad as a nine-year-old, the year India made it to the World Cup final. At the age of 11, she was fast-tracked into the states U-19 side, and at 16, like Mithali, she was an India international. I picked up the game because of my brother, but Mithali Raj was a big name by then and everyone wanted to be like her, she says. I realised her star status when I attended my first senior probables camp. To get a chance to open the batting with her in inter-camp matches was worth so much for a junior like me.In July 2014, in Wormsley against England, Mithali and Mandhana steered a tense fourth-innings chase to win Indias first Test in eight years.Harmanpreet Kaurs first international half-century - a 113-ball 84 in an ODI against England in Mumbai in 2010 - was made in Mithalis company. The two added 90 runs after coming together at 26 for 4. Harmanpreet says being guided by someone who she looked up to helped her settle down in the dressing room.Anyone who comes in must feel welcome, just the way I was made to feel welcome early on by a legend like Mithali di, says Harmanpreet, now Indias vice-captain under Mithali. I realised how weve come a long way when we partied in Australia after beating them earlier this year. The seniors and juniors mingled freely. Mithali di was a friend to us. No one looked at her as just the captain. That marked a change in mindset. People became free.The impact Mithali has had on the next generation nearly didnt materialise. When she was about 25, she began to think her time in cricket was up. The strains of her formative years had begun to take a toll by 2009, and she spent countless hours with physiotherapists because of her knees. Then there was pressure to marry because she was ageing.I was happy I didnt [get married] because I may not have achieved what I did after that. I may have not played this long, Mithali says. Now that I have become independent in every facet, I dont feel the need to get married unless I find the right man. I am not answerable to anyone. My parents have taken care of me so much that I dont need to go to a third person.Mithalis parents made sacrifices for their daughters career - Dorai Raj passed up a promotion because it would have meant relocating to another city when Mithali was first named among the World Cup probables, and Leela quit her career as a manager at an optical products chain to take care of Mithali. They understand now that pushing her into marriage in her mid-20s would have undone all that.Of course they have dreams of seeing me married, Mithali says as her parents nod along. Even though they understand, they still sometimes bow down to pressure from society and relatives. Im not someone who goes by what society thinks. To each his own life. They are comfortable today because they know Im not immature. They are happy about it now and have left it entirely to me. But after nearly 17 years of top-flight cricket, Mithali is finally thinking of life after the game. My aim two years back was the 2017 World Cup because we didnt do well at home in the 2013 [World Cup]. I felt I should leave when the team isnt dependent on me as player or captain or senior player. Seeing the fitness that I have at the moment, I see myself playing for two to three years.Her parents are also shifting their focus to her post-retirement life. Now her mother will want her to finish her post-graduation, let me give it to you in writing, laughs Dorai Raj, who now trains U-16 girls at Andhra Cricket Associations womens wing in Guntur.Leela is pushing Mithali to work on other life skills. Even today, she is bad at routes, terrible at registering names. If I give her a list of things to do, chances are she will forget half of it. She can hardly cook. 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He is a powerful man, excelling in a sport that few would argue is one of the most physically grueling in the world.And he is resilient, the all-around bronze medalist four years ago accepting his place as an alternate with grace and a positive attitude until two weeks before the Games, when he was placed on the U.S. team after a teammate was injured.But as Leyva crouched on the mat, his teammates urging him on, there was only disbelief, shock, obviously disappointment, he said. I didnt know what happened.What happened in the big picture was not all on Leyva. Rather, the U.S. men, as buoyant a group as their female counterparts are talented, came out on floor in their first rotation and succumbed to what they described as jitters.I really dont know what happened, honestly, it happened so quick, said Alex Naddour, the first performer who faltered on a front double and full combination, then fell on his full layout dismount. My legs felt a little bit tired, I guess, and so I rushed the twist and meant to do a full-out and did a full-in and kind of got lost.I tried my best ... and tried to land it, but it just kind of happens in this sport.As also happens in this sport, Mikulak followed and seemingly got sucked into the vortex of nerves, stepping out of bounds on his first two tumbling passes.I was a little jittery, a little cautious, he said. Sometimes you go out of bounds, sometimes you dont, thats just how it is.And just as he is, Mikulak never lost his voice, either figuratively or literally.I just started screaming and shouting at everyone at that point, he said. Thats how we train, as men. Believe in yourself. Go attack it. I think we started with too little belief.Indeed, the Americans picked it up from then on, with solid sets on pommel horse and rings, better still on vault and parallel bars, inching into sixth-place after the fourth rotation and into fifth-place after the fifth, within striking distance of the podium.Selling each routine upon completion with shouts of Lets go, accompanied by self-inflicted chest thumps, they set up a dramatic conclusion.And when Mikulak ripped off a 15.7 on high bar and Chris Brooks a 15.1, it?seemed only logical that Leyva, who qualified for the high bar finals along with parallel bars, would follow suit.Before the competition began, Brooks had given his teammates a pep talk.I told all of them before we started that I can look each and every one of them in the eyes and say I know we did everything we physically could to prepare for this moment, he said.dddddddddddd So I just reminded them to trust themselves and be aggressive and if theres mistakes while youre being aggressive, thats just part of the sport, thats the nature of it. But if theres mistakes when youre being timid, thats when you can get a little frustrated with yourself.But we were aggressive in my opinion. We got the ball rolling about halfway through and tried to finish it out and had a mistake at the end but Leyva was being very aggressive. He was going for the bar, he was going for the connection and thats what I told him to do. Thats what we want from him.Leyvas stepfather, also his private coach, told him he tried to make the connection too early.My grip wasnt really on the bar and I really tried to hang on, I really did, but I just slipped off, Leyva said. I dont know how it happened, I cant tell you what I did.The fact that even if he had hit, the U.S. may still not have made it to the podium, did not cheer him up afterward.No, Im still going to feel like it was my fault, he said. I was the last routine and I should have hit no matter what.After getting up and completing his routine, Leyva walked over to his teammates and apologized.You cant say sorry, Brooks told him. Theres nothing to be sorry about.Leyva was being aggressive, Brooks said. He did exactly what we asked and the bar slipped out of his hands. It happens to everybody. Its gymnastics. Its extremely difficult. But Im proud of him to get up in that moment and finish the way he did.That the sport is fragile and fickle is nothing new to any of them, least of all Leyva, and it didnt help to be reminded.I wish I could use it as a consolation, but thats what makes the sport so intense, thats what makes it the hardest sport in the world, he said. Any small little thing can make a huge difference, you know.In the group hug, they said they loved each other.Its one thing if you go out and someone on the team didnt do this or that and then they make a mistake and mess up, Naddour said. Its a whole other thing when you know everyones been sacrificing, working on their diet, training day in and day out. It doesnt feel as badly.They will move on to all-around finals with Mikulak and Brooks, and to apparatus finals with all five participating in at least one event.I still think were on the road to success, said Jake Dalton. Today, yeah, it wasnt our best day but we showed we were second best in the world in prelims. I know we can contend for the podium but we just didnt have our best day today.For Leyva, who patiently answered every question about the slip, regrouping is his only option.I left it out there, he said, pointing to the arena floor. Thats it. Theres nothing I can do about that routine anymore, you know. The only thing I can do is the routine I have.The only thing I can say is I tried grabbing the bar and it slipped off. ' ' '